FAQs and expert advice about wedding planning

Here is a selection of Q&As from Your Berks, Bucks and Oxon Wedding magazine whether it be about flowers, hair and makeup, fashion, wedding themes, health & beauty, cakes, stationery, legal advice. If you would like your question answered by our experts, please email it to editor@yourberksbucksoxon.wedding


Small and chic

Small and chic

Q. We're searching for a historic venue that offers wedding packages for our micro wedding this summer - can you help?

A. Helen Taylor says: Helen says: Enjoy this rare opportunity to take sole use of the house and grounds at Cumberland Lodge on a variety of dates with the added incentive that every booking helps to support the charity based at the lodge which promotes progress towards more peaceful, open and inclusive societies. The house is surrounded by expansive parkland leading directly to Windsor Castle and features elegant reception rooms and cosy, wood-panelled dining rooms steeped in history. Wedding guests can follow in the footsteps of movie stars such as Colin Firth (who stood on the sweeping red staircase that leads to the Tapestry Hall in The King's Speech) and more recently, Benedict Cumberbatch and Claire Foy – not to mention a host of royal guests.

The venue is renowned for its warm welcome and excellent standards of dining and hospitality. It's a magical setting and offers Covid-secure weddings for up to 15 guests. For £135 per person, the boutique wedding package includes canapés on arrival, a delicious three-course wedding breakfast and an elegant evening reception with a light supper served in the spacious Drawing Room. Overnight accommodation is available in a choice of elegant en-suite bedrooms, each with sweeping views over the stunning parkland. A standard room costs £135 per night based on single occupancy, £150 based on double or twin occupancy and a deluxe room based on double occupancy is priced at £190. Rates include a complimentary menu consultation for the couple when a party of ten or more guests is booked.

Helen Taylor, Cumberland Lodge


Style me pretty

Style me pretty

Q. We need some venue styling and design ideas for our micro wedding this summer - can you help?

A. Elizabeth Wong says: Elizabeth says: “If you've decided on a micro-wedding, you should still think about hiring a venue stylist who can help make the event extra-special, helping you perfect those all-important finishing touches and giving you peace of mind – you don't have to sacrifice the styling or decoration and it'll still be your dream day! For example, a statement backdrop for your aisle will provide an Insta-worthy opportunity for photographs.

We offer bespoke styling and décor packages and I would be happy to accommodate these for smaller weddings to a budget if required.

Elizabeth Wong, Elizabeth Weddings


Planning ahead

Planning ahead

Q. We're tying the knot next year and although we're in lockdown, I want to still stick to my wedding planning to do list. What should I keep in mind when choosing a cake supplier at this time?

A. Daisy Pratt says: Daisy says: Firstly, congratulations! I hope you have been enjoying planning your wedding so far. I know that the current situation with lockdown hasn't made things easy for anyone, but I think having your wedding to think about will give you both something really lovely and positive to focus on during this time!

You are right to be thinking about your wedding cake supplier too. One of the biggest pieces of advice I can give, especially if you've been scanning Instagram for cake inspiration and you have found a cake designer whose style you really like, is don't delay in reaching out to them. Cake designers can get booked up quite far in advance, but due to the current situation with covid-19, many of this year's weddings are now being deferred until next year meaning that dates are getting booked up even faster than usual.

Having said that, you shouldn't feel pressured into making a decision quickly. A good cake designer will be happy to give you first refusal on your wedding date, should another couple get in touch before you have had a chance to make your final decision and book.

Another thing to help you when choosing a supplier to work with, is look at how they are adapting their service to suit couples during this time. For example, as social distancing has prevented in-person cake consultations/coffee meetings, I've started offering Zoom catch-ups! In principal, it's a great way for couples to have an informal chat with a cake designer, get to know a bit more about them, their style and ethos, and also for them to find out more you, your wedding plans and ideal cake budget. It's so important to have a lovely rapport with all of your wedding suppliers. Planning a wedding can have its stressful moments and having a friendly team around you who are adaptable and helpful, is worth its weight in gold!

Finally, lots of cake designers are also offering tasting boxes by post, which is another great way to help you decide. There is usually a cost involved, but nothing beats receiving a box of freshly prepared cake flavours to enjoy with a cup of tea together in the comfort of your own home!

Daisy Pratt, Very Vanilla

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